
This week we will continue to study the characteristics of humility
The next characteristic we will study is NON – RETALIATION (Meekness)


This perspective is presented by Pastor Edivaldo Bomfim – Pastors Edivaldo and Sílvia Bomfim are Senior Pastors of Comunidade Cristã Rapha
The Biblical Concept of Meekness.
Power under control: In the original Greek (praótes).
Key Concept: Meekness is not weakness, cowardice, or timidity.
Meekness is power under control. It is having the strength of a giant, but choosing to act with the gentleness and obedience of a child of God.
A virtue generated by the Holy Spirit that combines inner strength, gentleness, and total submission to God. It is listed in Galatians 5:22-23 and directly opposes the works of the flesh, such as outbursts of anger, discord, and pride.
The Metaphor of the Wild Horse
Imagine a wild horse, strong and fast. Loose, it can destroy fences and cause accidents.
But when it is tamed, it does not lose its strength; it simply puts all that energy under the command of the rider.
The horse is our will and our emotions.
The rider is the Holy Spirit.
Four Essential Points:
- The Example of Jesus (The Model)
Jesus had all the power in the universe, but chose to be humble.
He knew when to be firm (as when he drove the money changers out of the temple).
He knew when to be silent and forgive in the most difficult moment (on the cross).
Jesus emphasized this virtue as the only explicit character trait he attributed to himself.
Matthew 11:29 “Learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart.”
- Meekness in Daily Life (The Practice)
In conversation: Respond calmly when someone yells at you (Proverbs 15:1).
In correction: Help those who have erred without feeling superior (Galatians 6:1).
In stress: Maintain patience in traffic or with problems at home.
In dealing with oppressors: Endure insults and criticism without holding a grudge, leaving the final judgment in God’s hands. - The Benefits (The Result)
Mental peace: Protects you against stress and chronic anger.
Divine promise: Jesus promised that the meek will inherit the earth (Matthew 5:5).
Testimony: Shows others that God governs your life. - Practical Examples from the Bible (Heroes of Meekness)
Moses: When criticized by his own family, he did not take revenge; he prayed for their healing.
After 40 years of God’s treatment in the desert, the Bible describes him in Numbers 12:3 as “a very meek man, more than all the men who were on the face of the earth.”
David: Had the chance to kill his pursuer (Saul) while he slept, but chose to leave the judgment in God’s hands.
(1 Samuel 24 and 26).
Abigail: Used sweet words and gifts to calm the fury of David and an army of 400 armed men.
Abigail acted with wisdom, gentleness, and swiftness (1 Samuel 25).
Stephen: Was the first martyr of the Christian church, unjustly imprisoned and judged for preaching the gospel (Acts 6 and 7).
While being stoned, he used his last strength to ask God to forgive his murderers. He knelt and cried out in a loud voice: “Lord, do not hold this sin against them” (Acts 7:60), dying in complete peace.
Practical Application for Life.
The next time someone offends you or a situation gets out of your control, don’t react impulsively.
Remember: He who retaliates is controlled by the circumstance; he who controls himself is controlled by the Holy Spirit.

Notes extracted from the book “Rest in the Day of Perils” – Dr S.Y. Govender
Ephesians 4:2 with all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another
The word “meekness” is derived from the Greek word “praótēs̄́” (G4236) and means: meekness, mildness, forbearance, calmness towards God but wrath towards sin and evil as Jesus beating the money changers out of the Temple. It is the acceptance of God’s dealings with us considering them as good. A meek person does not get angry by people and circumstances. (CWSB Dictionary)
FEATURES OF MEEKNESS
Deaf and dumb in the face of attacks
Psalms 38:13 But I, like a deaf man, do not hear; And I am like a mute who does not open his mouth. 14 Thus I am like a man who does not hear, And in whose mouth is no response. 15 For in You, O LORD, I hope; You will hear, O Lord my God.
Isaiah 53:7 He was oppressed and He was afflicted, Yet He opened not His mouth; He was led as a lamb to the slaughter, And as a sheep before its shearers is silent, So He opened not His mouth.
Psalms 39:1 I said, “I will guard my ways, Lest I sin with my tongue; I will restrain my mouth with a muzzle, While the wicked are before me.” 2 I was mute with silence, I held my peace even from good; And my sorrow was stirred up. 3 My heart was hot within me; While I was musing, the fire burned. Then I spoke with my tongue: 4 “LORD, make me to know my end, And what is the measure of my days, That I may know how frail I am. 5 Indeed, You have made my days as handbreadths, And my age is as nothing before You; Certainly every man at his best state is but vapor.
This is calmness in the face of antagonism. It is not weakness but the demonstration of strength in self control
Refusal to threaten
1 Peter 2:23 who, when He was reviled, did not revile in return; when He suffered, He did not threaten, but committed Himself to Him who judges righteously;
Refusal to quarrel/fight
Matthew 12:19 He will not quarrel nor cry out, Nor will anyone hear His voice in the streets.
Matthew 26:47 And while He was still speaking, behold, Judas, one of the twelve, with a great multitude with swords and clubs, came from the chief priests and elders of the people. 48 Now His betrayer had given them a sign, saying, “Whomever I kiss, He is the One; seize Him.” 49 Immediately he went up to Jesus and said, “Greetings, Rabbi!” and kissed Him. 50 But Jesus said to him, “Friend, why have you come?” Then they came and laid hands on Jesus and took Him. 51 And suddenly, one of those who were with Jesus stretched out his hand and drew his sword, struck the servant of the high priest, and cut off his ear. 52 But Jesus said to him, “Put your sword in its place, for all who take the sword will perish by the sword. 53 Or do you think that I cannot now pray to My Father, and He will provide Me with more than twelve legions of angels? 54 How then could the Scriptures be fulfilled, that it must happen thus?”
David refused to quarrel with Shimei
2 Samuel 16:7 Also Shimei said thus when he cursed: “Come out! Come out! You bloodthirsty man, you rogue! 8 The LORD has brought upon you all the blood of the house of Saul, in whose place you have reigned; and the LORD has delivered the kingdom into the hand of Absalom your son. So now you are caught in your own evil, because you are a bloodthirsty man!” 9 Then Abishai the son of Zeruiah said to the king, “Why should this dead dog curse my lord the king? Please, let me go over and take off his head!” 10 But the king said, “What have I to do with you, you sons of Zeruiah? So let him curse, because the LORD has said to him, ‘Curse David.’ Who then shall say, ‘Why have you done so?’ ” 11 And David said to Abishai and all his servants, “See how my son who came from my own body seeks my life. How much more now may this Benjamite? Let him alone, and let him curse; for so the LORD has ordered him.
Abraham refused to quarrel
Genesis 13:8 So Abram said to Lot, “Please let there be no strife between you and me, and between my herdsmen and your herdsmen; for we are brethren. 9 Is not the whole land before you? Please separate from me. If you take the left, then I will go to the right; or, if you go to the right, then I will go to the left.”
Hannah did not quarrel with Eli for his callous, false accusation
1 Samuel 1:13 Now Hannah spoke in her heart; only her lips moved, but her voice was not heard. Therefore Eli thought she was drunk. 14 So Eli said to her, “How long will you be drunk? Put your wine away from you!” 15 But Hannah answered and said, “No, my lord, I am a woman of sorrowful spirit. I have drunk neither wine nor intoxicating drink, but have poured out my soul before the LORD. 16 Do not consider your maidservant a wicked woman, for out of the abundance of my complaint and grief I have spoken until now.”
The meek and lowly refuse to quarrel and strive when faced with a barrage of false accusations. They are confident in the “refuge and strength” of the Lord.
Withdrawal – to walk away
Matthew 12:14 Then the Pharisees went out and plotted against Him, how they might destroy Him 15 But when Jesus knew it, He withdrew from there. And great multitudes followed Him, and He healed them all. 16 Yet He warned them not to make Him known,
Refusal to defend oneself or complain
Mark 15:3 And the chief priests accused Him of many things, but He answered nothing. 4 Then Pilate asked Him again, saying, “Do You answer nothing? See how many things they testify against You!” 5 But Jesus still answered nothing, so that Pilate marveled.
1 Corinthians 4:9 For I think that God has displayed us, the apostles, last, as men condemned to death; for we have been made a spectacle to the world, both to angels and to men. 10 We are fools for Christ’s sake, but you are wise in Christ! We are weak, but you are strong! You are distinguished, but we are dishonored! 11 To the present hour we both hunger and thirst, and we are poorly clothed, and beaten, and homeless. 12 And we labor, working with our own hands. Being reviled, we bless; being persecuted, we endure; 13 being defamed, we entreat. We have been made as the filth of the world, the offscouring of all things until now.
1 Corinthians 4:16 Therefore I urge you, imitate me.
Ability to suffer loss
1 Peter 2:19 For this is commendable, if because of conscience toward God one endures grief, suffering wrongfully. 20 For what credit is it if, when you are beaten for your faults, you take it patiently? But when you do good and suffer, if you take it patiently, this is commendable before God. 21 For to this you were called, because Christ also suffered for us, leaving us an example, that you should follow His steps:
Meekness is a gentle disposition to wholly rely on God rather than your own strength in the face of injustice
Here are some practical examples
- When you know that someone has gossiped about you, ignore it. Don’t phone the person for a meeting. Let God vindicate you
- When you are publicly maligned, don’t respond. Let God vindicate you
- Walk away from striving and argumentative brothers. Let them have the benefit
- Bless those who persecute you. Don’t malign them
When you do this, you are imitating Christ – you are learning from Him.

Meekness and non retaliatory behaviour is the expected code of conduct from His disciples.
However, because we are yoked to Him and are seated with Him, our response to a culture of evil and wickedness must affect His disciples in the same way it affects Jesus.
Like we said in previous lessons, the Agape love of the Father (embodied in Christ) does not rejoice in iniquity; it rejoices in the truth. (1 Corinthians 13:6)
Note that His disciples remembered what was prophesied about Jesus when they witnessed the all consuming zeal in Jesus for His Father’s house. Jesus was not insane nor was He possessed by demons; He was consumed with zeal which is an intense, burning desire for honour and reverence for the house of His Father.
John 2:16 And He said to those who sold doves, “Take these things away! Do not make My Father’s house a house of merchandise!” 17 Then His disciples remembered that it was written, “Zeal for Your house has eaten Me up.”
Paul pleads with the believers in Corinth in the “meekness and gentleness of Christ” concerning spiritual warfare. Paul does not want his boldness and confidence in addressing some individuals to be misconstrued for operating and waging war “in the flesh”. The Apostle Paul’s preferred weapon in engaging in battle was the Word of the Lord which is sharper than any double edged sword and mighty in God.
2 Corinthians 10:1 Now I, Paul, myself am pleading with you by the meekness and gentleness of Christ—who in presence am lowly among you, but being absent am bold toward you. 2 But I beg you that when I am present I may not be bold with that confidence by which I intend to be bold against some, who think of us as if we walked according to the flesh. 3 For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war according to the flesh. 4 For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds, 5 casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ, 6 and being ready to punish all disobedience when your obedience is fulfilled.
Paul was truly an apostle of Christ. Paul declared “though we walk in the flesh, we do not war according to the flesh”. The prophet Isaiah prophesied that the voice of Jesus would not be heard quarrelling in the street
Matthew 12:14 Then the Pharisees went out and plotted against Him, how they might destroy Him. 15 But when Jesus knew it, He withdrew from there. And great multitudes followed Him, and He healed them all. 16 Yet He warned them not to make Him known, 17 that it might be fulfilled which was spoken by Isaiah the prophet, saying: 18 “Behold! My Servant whom I have chosen, My Beloved in whom My soul is well pleased! I will put My Spirit upon Him, And He will declare justice to the Gentiles. 19 He will not quarrel nor cry out, Nor will anyone hear His voice in the streets.
Jesus is an advocate of non violent resistance
Matthew 26:50 But Jesus said to him, “Friend, why have you come?” Then they came and laid hands on Jesus and took Him. 51 And suddenly, one of those who were with Jesus stretched out his hand and drew his sword, struck the servant of the high priest, and cut off his ear. 52 But Jesus said to him, “Put your sword in its place, for all who take the sword will perish by the sword. 53 Or do you think that I cannot now pray to My Father, and He will provide Me with more than twelve legions of angels?
Our faith in Him and His Word must subdue and restrain any carnal inclination. We must imitate His way.
Psalms 46:10 Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth!
This non retaliatory, non violent resistance advocated by Jesus will challenge the conscience of hierarchical governing systems that are thirsting for blood and control. Jesus never advocated civil disobedience, lawlessness and anarchy. On the contrary Jesus encouraged the people to support governing structures; to render to Caesar the things that are Caesar’s, and to God the things that are God’s.” (Matthew 22:21)
Jesus advocated submission to governing authorities without compromising our beliefs, values and the explicit commands in the Word of God. In John 19:11 Jesus simply informs Pilate about the supremacy of His Father concerning the life of His Son as well as the authority that His Father has Divinely invested in Pilate.
Jesus demonstrates His meekness in this conversation with Pilate without diminishing His Divine authority or compromising the truth
John 19:8 Therefore, when Pilate heard that saying, he was the more afraid, 9 and went again into the Praetorium, and said to Jesus, “Where are You from?” But Jesus gave him no answer. 10 Then Pilate said to Him, “Are You not speaking to me? Do You not know that I have power to crucify You, and power to release You?” 11 Jesus answered, “You could have no power at all against Me unless it had been given you from above. Therefore the one who delivered Me to you has the greater sin.” 12 From then on Pilate sought to release Him, but the Jews cried out, saying, “If you let this Man go, you are not Caesar’s friend. Whoever makes himself a king speaks against Caesar.”











































































